Thursday, November 8, 2007

Utah visits Nashville

A few pictures from our week together
Nothing can keep this kid out. He discovered how to open the doors and was very proud of his discovery.
Yes...it's never too early to expose your children to the finer things in life. Grandpa will be sure that "Nissan" is one of his first words.
Elmo's World...Parker would ask for it as soon as he got up in the morning. We tried hiding the case from him, but he remembered it. We soon figured out that we couldn't beat it, so we just joined in.
Don't let this happy face fool you. He was fine for the time he was in the stroller, but as soon as he was out of it, he wanted to push it. The mistake was actually letting him push it. For one thing, he couldn't see where the heck he was going, and he refused to push it where you wanted it to go, and he did NOT want any help. One finger of yours on the stroller and all was lost! The stroller became a four letter word. We resorted to hiding it from his sight and spelling it when we needed to get it out of the trunk.

Traveling with a Toddler
After a grueling day in an airplane with a 17 month old, Robyn looked relieved to finally be in Nashville. I worried about her all day because I knew her trip had gotten off to a rough start. She had called me, in tears, from the Salt Lake Airport letting me know (which was a great relief because I thought something terrible had happened) that she had forgotten the carseat and that there was no way on earth she was going to go back through security to have Joe bring it to her. My girls have a way of scaring me to death when they call in hysterics. So, much to my relief, I was in need of a carseat...easy fix. Everyone arrived safe and sound. Every piece of luggage was accounted for (in our family, that's huge). And...as Robyn mentioned in her blog, I did get up the courage to drive by myself to pick her up. I know it's not a big deal for most of you....but it seems to be a huge deal for me. I can't seem to get over the anxiety of being in a new place and not knowing my way around. Bob keeps reminding me that I have a navigation system and a cell phone. What the heck more can he do for me?!

A List of things I learned
  • Elmo's World is a great little movie...I think I have it memorized.
  • The song sung to the tune of jingle bells has fairly easy lyrics...."friends"...that's it.
  • Naptime is very important.
  • Sometimes all you need is a power nap to get you through the day.
  • "Uppa" means "I want you to pick me up".
  • "damma" means "down"
  • It makes your grandpa very happy when you shout out "Bapa" from the back of the chapel in church and point to him on the stand repeatedly throughout the meeting.
  • "ooooeeee" means "movie" in the car....doesn't everyone play movies in their cars??
  • Teletubbies isn't nearly as disgusting when you watch it with a 17 month old.
  • It's more fun to stay outside in the garden at the Carnton mansion and throw rocks than to be inside with all those adults who want to hear a boring tour guide.
  • That guy at the Japanese Steak House is really scary with those knives he throws around and the big fire he makes on his grill.
  • Dinner is to be eaten alternating one bite in the mouth and one on the floor.
  • Waffles are great food to feed a toddler while pushing them in a stroller.
  • Strollers should be hidden and not talked about.
  • The first thing Parker learns to spell will probably be S.T.R.O.L.L.E.R.
  • It's fun to call out "JOE" from the bottom of the stairs when you know he's upstairs.
  • Joe is much easier to say than "daddy".
  • It's great to snuggle with Parker right after he wakes up in the morning.
  • Why rent a movie for $1 when you can buy it at Wal Mart for $20, and then you find four more movies on sale for $5 and end up spending $40. Makes sense to me!

It seems like we were just getting the hang of things and our time together was over. We drove them to the airport and said goodbye. We watched them as they breezed through security...no drama this time. Then we gave our last wave, wiped away our tears, and walked silently back to our car with the now empty carseat in the back. This, my friends, is what life is made of. We are so blessed!

12 comments:

Susie said...

There is such a sweetness/bitterness to have a child with the oh-so-important grandchild living away, isn't there? Sounds like you had a wonderful visit- isn't that last kiss and wave as they walk away from you at the airport SO painful? I read Michael's blog this morning- I love that he's now EQ Prez- he'll do awesome! Miss you...

Christie said...

Oh, just reading your list brings back memories of when my boys were that age. We LIVED on Elmo and I hated when they discovered they could get out of the s-t-r-o-l-l-e-r. Those are fun times. Glad you had a great week your daughter!

Grandma Hand said...

Oh my how that brings back mixed memories. When you took MY GRANDCHILDREN TO CALIFORNIA TO LIVE, I thought my life was over. You lived in Calif. and Penni and Patti lived in Texas. That was a really empty time but then we went to GERMANY and looked forward to the letters we would receive. Do you remember the saga of Duchess and the Puppies. I would wait for the next episode in the next letter which didn't arrive soon enough and I haunted the mailbox. What an experience in my life.

Tina said...

Although I am blessed to have my mom so close, I would love to have her visit be a vacation and every minute we devoted to each other. I never realized how close you are to your kids, I love it and really look up to you. You are such an awesome person and Im so thankful you are my aunt and my friend! Ilove you guys to death!

Unknown said...

YAY! Another fun blog about our trip! Stroller is definitely a 4-letter word now. Still. I'm glad you witnessed it first hand so you can empathize with me! Parker misses you...he holds whatever he finds up to his ear and pretends he's talking to Nannu. We'll see you soon! Love ya!

Annakaisa said...

You wrote: 'My girls have a way of scaring me to death when they call in hysterics'. Yep... I've done that same thing to my mom more than once, and a couple of times she got really mad at me, because she thought somebody had died.:)It is so wonderful that you got to spend time with Robyn and Parker, and Joe also. I know all about 'living far away from your family' and those times together are so precious!

Annakaisa said...

And also... the picture of Parker "driving" the car. Obviously he's already got a taste of the good stuff in life.

Kimberly said...

Man, Parker sure has a mind of his own. Hmmm...who does that remind you of...I wonder???

For years, I thought you all thought I had gone insane because of my issues with naps, carseats, four letter words, etc. Now, I just sit back and smile because I know that I wasn't insane and that my kids were/are just doing what normal kids do.

Weston & Jennie said...

I have to disagree with one thing that you said, I still can't stomach the teletubbies kids or not. :) It looks like you had a great visit. Robyn looks good! HOw is she feeling? Where will you be for the Holidays? I hope that you are doing well.

Diane said...

Teletubbies are pretty annoying!! Robyn is feeling great, and is in good shape. She made me walk every day and I had a hard time keeping up with her. We have had a hard time figuring out what to do for the holidays. We don't quite know what to do with ourselves. We are splitting the time between Utah and San Diego.

Diane said...

We can't wait until Parker gets to go for a ride in the convertible Z-car so we can show him how it feels to have the wind blow through your hair. I tell Diane a car like the 350Z convertible adds 10-years to your life. We'll have to wait a few years so he really appreciates the ride.
Bob

Michael said...

I better make a comment on your blog so you know that I didn't forget about it and read dad's addition. I wish I had been able to go back there. Speaking of going back there...when's my next trip?